5 Tips to Stay Connected While Wedding Planning

Don’t Forget to Date: How to Stay Connected While Planning Your Wedding in Dallas, Texas and abroad

Documentary Wedding Photographers Serving Dallas, Texas and Abroad

As Dallas-Fort Worth wedding photographers, my husband, Will, and I have been around weddings long enough to know how stressful they can be. We’ve also been together for a hot minute, and while we’re no marriage counselors, we genuinely love each other’s company. Whether it’s photographing DFW & destination weddings, homeschooling our kids, or teaming up on projects, we spend A LOT of time together. And while our family may roll their eyes at our seemingly permanent attachment by the hip, the truth is, we love it. Our hope for you as you plan your own wedding, is that you’ll continue to grow in love, laugh harder, and cherish each moment—yes, even the tough ones. Check out our top 5 pro tips to stay connected while wedding planning in Dallas, Texas and abroad.

Dating Your Partner: How Stay Connected While Wedding Planning

We know that wedding planning can feel overwhelming. From finances to family dynamics, you’re diving into the deep end of conversations that’ll set the foundation for your marriage. This is especially true if you’re planning a big Texas wedding, where expectations and logistics can add an extra layer of complexity. The key to staying connected through the process is to make time for each other—intentional time that doesn’t revolve around seating charts or floral arrangements.

So how do you keep your relationship strong and fun during this exciting but often stressful chapter? As your trusted documentary wedding photographers, we’ve got a list of tried-and-true tips for maintaining that connection while wedding planning!

1. Plan Date Nights (No Wedding Talk Allowed!)

One night a week, set aside time to enjoy each other’s company—completely wedding-free. Whether you’re grabbing dinner at your favorite restaurant, having a picnic at a local nature preserve, or going for a simple walk, the important thing is that you’re spending time together without any wedding planning distractions. Bonus pro-tip: turn your phone off!

2. Write Each Other Love Letters

When things get hectic, take a moment to write love notes to remind each other why you’re doing this. Hide them where they’ll be found when least expected—like a jacket pocket or on the mirror in the morning. It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture; sometimes, a small reminder of “I love you” can make all the difference. Will’s favorite move? Sticking a goofy doodle or note in my camera bag or car steering wheel before I head out for vendor meetings and photo shoots.

3. Create a Wedding Playlist Together

Music can make wedding planning a lot more fun! Build a playlist with songs that mean something to you both. Throw in a few slow songs for those sentimental moments and some upbeat jams for dance floor vibes. This can be your soundtrack for those late-night planning sessions. You might even find inspiration for your first dance song!

4. Divide and Conquer Wedding Tasks

You don’t have to do it all. Divide the responsibilities based on your strengths. Maybe you’re great at picking out décor while your fiancé loves handling logistics. This way, you’re both involved, but no one feels overwhelmed. At our wedding, Will was all about picking the DJ and catering, while I focused on cake tastings and florals. It’s a team effort that keeps things fun and balanced.

5. Remember Why You’re Getting Married

When wedding planning starts to feel like a full-time job, take a deep breath and remind yourselves why you’re getting married. Talk about your future together—beyond the wedding day. One of our favorite ways to reconnect is by sharing sentences like:

• “I fell in love with you because ________.”
• “I still love you because ________.”
• “My favorite quirky thing you do is ________.”
• “I can’t wait to enjoy ________ with you one day.”

Finally, I know it feels silly but there’s an awesome app that Will and I use literally every day. Check out Evergreen for prompts on getting to know each other even deeper and how to have a more intentional connection. Focusing on how to stay connected while wedding planning & the relationships we have with each other keeps the bigger picture front and center.